Showing posts with label adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adoption. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

America, THIS is Important *no way is the way*


Greetings Everyone!

Even though I had stopped this blog, because my own ego took over, which made me feel, unlike myself, THIS, what I have to say, in regards to the Charlottesville incident, and what is happening in my beloved America is too important to not share.  Ego, be damned. 

I've lived a rather colorful life; from the wealthy suburbs of NYC, to Europe, to the streets of San Fran, venice beach -squatting, to crawling out of that, to the lowest level of poverty, now to where I am, PA.  So, I've come across a lot of different types of people, from ALL tax brackets, and here's what I need to say.

You've all, for the most part, been lovely.  I've been treated well by gang bangers in LA, NYC, the Bronx, by Latin Kings, Mexican cartel members, gutter punks, etc., basically, those considered the lowest forms of society.  

Here, in PA, in 2001-2 I ran a small, motel called, The Willow Dell, in Mohnton, PA.  The place was a real chit hole, filled with mostly, weekly renters who were stuck there.  Many of the people I met there, were also proud KKK members, renters and others in the area, and though suspicious of me at first, within our firsts conversations, I would be able to win them over - not "trying," just by being who I am.  Even though, I am not any more than 50% white and look it; brown, "ethnic," whatever.

I was able to debate, discuss our differing beliefs, and ideals, and yet, still, the people listened and liked what it was I had to say, and ended up liking- me.   The same can also be said for many of those inherently, white racists that I've met since living here (though not all - but most).  They've seemed to change their former, racist beliefs, since I've known them.  Beliefs born of simply, not knowing any better.  Most have GROWN in their ideas, changed.  

Now, the liberals that I have met, during the same period, including my own birth mother - they have not (changed).  They cannot debate, converse, NOR hear of any ideas that don't parlay with their own.  Now, why is that?

I will never speak to my own mother again, as my disdain for Hillary Clinton became the third and final straw for her and for me.

The first time she stopped speaking to me was over the gay marriage issue.  I had merely said, "Marijuana legalization should have taken precedence."  We didn't speak for several years.  I would write, call, email - all to no avail. 

The second time we stopped speaking was over my bringing the "smack down," on my then teenage son.  Her niece, another filthy liberal, witnessed it and it made her cry.  Boo Hoo.  Suffice to say, she threatened to call CPS on me, as it was, 'her duty, being as she was as a teacher from TX," to which I reminded her that I had spent our whole visit listening to her BRAG about how she AND our aunt (whom I never met), were BOTH HAVING SEXUAL AFFAIRS WITH THEIR 16 YEAR OLD EIGHTH GRADE ILLEGAL ALIEN STUDENTS!!!!!!!!!  And her "comical," story of how the aunt's toyboy was so drunk at my own mother's NYE party that he had alcohol poisoning, (I'm adopted, praise GOD) yet no one at the party, all of my mother's family, would call 911 as they were all teachers.  And, the truly "funny, " story of how she knew the aunt even had sex in the aunt's classroom, which was across the hall from hers!!!  BUT, it was my yelling at my deserving kid that WAS OFFENSIVE.

People, THIS IS THE MENTALITY OF THE LEFT.  For YEARS, I thought it was me.  Now I know, it is not.  There is something so fundamentally wrong with these people, it is not even funny.  Most are on a plethora of legal drugs, alcohol, tobacco.  Many are having and living risky sex lives, and they are stupid.  FAR TOO stupid to see through their own eyes, their lives, lies and hypocrisy.  So stupid, that they don't even realize, that it wasn't that long ago, in the beginning, when homosexuality was being shoved down our throats (and their anuses), that their mantra was that they were, "BORN THIS WAY."  NOW, born this way? WHAT!  They are changing every, single bit about themselves; girls are becoming boys and boys are becoming girls.  

The whole point of this post; the white supremacists aren't the problem, they have some valid points, as did the BLM (minus the soros backing), however NOW- we must come together.  Those of us who can and must, LISTEN, DIALOG with each other.  WE MUST COME TOGETHER -those of us who were born this way - as AMERICANS, must come together.  

I don't know about you, but I am a 100% purebred American MUTT and proud of it (the "purebred mutt" was intended).  I love my fellow american citizens; STRAIGHT, black, white, brown, red, yellow, etc.  I don't love the establishment, the media, the medical establishment, or those who worship those - the liberals.   

DON'T LET YOURSELVES FALL INTO THIS HATE - INTO THEIR CONTRIVED TRAP, AS THE LIBERALS HAVE.  FALL ONLY INTO GOD, LOVE YOURSELF, AS GOD MADE YOU, AND LOVE ALL OTHERS WHO LOVE GOD (as Muslims do too). 

In Jesus's name. 



Saturday, June 18, 2016

Kids Will Always Want to Know Their Roots

I have one more thing I'd like to say today.  This is something I can speak of, from first hand experience, and it doesn't pertain just to same sex couples, but to anyone raising a child not made from them, or grown within them.

I am an adoptee.  Within my life, like the saying goes, like a moth to a flame, I found myself surrounded by adoptees.  We would inherently flock to one another.  Fate, maybe, coincidence, definitely not.  Like I've said in other posts, energy is everything. 

What I want to talk about are all the children being born now, via surrogate, and sent to live with either same sex couples, or heterosexual couples.  I'm 40. In m generation it was mostly regular adopted kids I knew.  By "regular," I mean, usually we were children born of children who could not keep us. And I can assure you, no matter how much love or money we were given, just about all of the girls and some of the boys I knew, always wanted to find their birth mother's.  We all felt as if something was missing, a piece of us, unknown. Because it was. 

I found both of my birth parents after I turned 30.  When I found my birth father, I found out that he and his college girlfriend MADE a baby specifically for two of their professors that they loved and knew couldn't have children.  This is my younger sister.  She was loved, but never told that she was adopted.  She found out in her early teens, that she was made to be given away and she, like me, had a similar path from then on; had two kids of her own, succumbed to a drug addiction -though is sober and doing great now. 

My point is this, we are going to have an onslaught of children who are feeling lost, like they don't belong, like something is missing.  I know from finding my own parents, and also from watching my own children grow up that genetics are real.  All of these are such important factors in rearing kids.  It's a difficult journey just being a "regular" adopted kid being raised by heterosexual parents.  Add into that factor the idea the kids today are going to grow up knowing, i.e.: that some woman "cooked" them inside of her for money.  The thoughts of, were they loved while in that woman's womb, will be wondered.  Does she think about me, will be wondered.  And if these questions aren't pondered, I fear even more!

I don't think people have given much thought to their actions.  My generation, we were lucky to be born, considering Roe v Wade, selflessness by our birth mothers played far more of a role. Unlike now, where I definitely feel that selfishness has prevailed, and it's an absolute that the future generation will pay the price for it. 

There, I've said what I've wanted to.